I got this quote from a woman that is a dating coach and matchmaker, her name is Amy Laurent, and yes she is like 99 percent of women who stubbornly, adamantly insist that the man should do the pursuing, approaching, asking out, making the first move, etc.
She says that even though the man is taking the lead, doing the leading. Because many people argue and say that since the man typically does the leading, takes the lead, does the approaching and asking out, makes the first move, that means he is the one in charge, in control, but not according to her, here is her quote:
"All the decisions and power lies where the woman sets the boundaries by saying “Yes”
or “No” to things. It’s the woman that sets the pace, sets the parameters, and dictates how she will be treated and looked at by the man (for instance, are you a casual play-thing or relationship/girlfriend material?) This is all up to the woman, and the woman has the most control via means of her “influence.” A misconception is to view it the other way. The core of power does not come from the one who is initiating (the man)."
Do you agree or disagree with that quote?
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